A year ago, I made the heartfelt decision to embrace the Hijab. It was a choice that had been on my mind for quite some time, especially in the past two years. Allow me to share with you the journey of faith and blessings that I embarked on, overcoming its challenges and finding profound meaning.
Let us agree that the Hijab is much more than a mere scarf to cover the head. It is a powerful symbol of spirituality and connection with Allah SWT. It also carries with it responsibilities and obligations in how Muslim women are perceived around the world. That is why it took me a while to take this step. I wanted to ensure that I would embrace it with utmost respect in both my clothing choices and, most importantly, my conduct.
I consider myself fortunate to have been raised with a deep understanding of Islam’s true essence. It goes beyond just prayer and fasting. It encompasses living by the teachings of the Quran and following the example set by the Prophet Mohammad (peace be upon him). As a hijabi, it is my duty to not only embody these values but also to educate others about the fact that the Hijab is not a constraint or a punishment, as some may wrongly perceive it.
To be completely honest, while I did not wear the Hijab to seek the approval or disapproval of others, I did take into account the reactions of my family, friends, and society as a whole. Their responses did not waver my determination or conviction to be a hijabi. Ultimately, I chose to wear the Hijab solely as an expression of faith, drawing myself closer to Allah SWT. I faced mixed reactions: some were surprised yet supportive, some believed I shouldn’t have taken this step, some unfollowed me on my social media (my hairdresser, of all people!), and some were inspired and encouraged to embark on their own Hijab journey. I consider myself blessed for each of these experiences.
Throughout this past year, I have discovered a new reflection staring back at me in the mirror. It may have felt unusual at first, just like when someone cuts their long hair short after years. But with time, I grew accustomed to it and began to feel like myself again. I witnessed, once more, how faith strengthens me in the face of any hardship.
I have come to cherish the sense of belonging and sisterhood shared with other women who wear the Hijab. We connect through our shared experiences and values. I cannot tell you how heartwarming it was to be of exchanging kind smiles and salams with fellow hijabis while traveling, as if silently acknowledging our shared bond.
Wearing the Hijab has empowered me and instilled a newfound confidence in my choices. I continued to pursue my dreams and aspirations, grateful for the achievements I accomplished throughout the year. I also found joy in inspiring other women, demonstrating that nothing can hinder them from reaching their goals.
Many people asked if I was afraid that being a hijabi would affect my online presence on social media. But let me tell you, my page and social media platforms are meant to reflect who I am, what I do, and what I wish to share. Whether I am wearing the Hijab or not, nothing should dictate the content I create. I remain true to myself. I haven’t undergone a complete transformation; I am still the same Hanine la Petite, here to inspire you with style, fashion, lifestyle, travel, and some valuable life lessons and fun moments!
Style has always played a significant role in my life, and I admit that the first two months as a hijabi were challenging. I wanted to continue expressing my personal style while adhering to modesty. There were some failed attempts, especially until I found the right way to wear the Hijab that suited my face and personal style. It warms my heart to see how many look up to my way of dressing modestly and find inspiration in it.
One of the most asked question to any hijabi is how can she bear it during the heat. Think that the hardships were akin to those we experience while fasting during Ramadan. If we spend the day fixating solely on food, we will feel hunger and exhaustion. Similarly, the heat can be challenging for everyone, whether they wear the Hijab or not. I made sure not to subject myself to extreme conditions whenever possible. I explored different clothing options to make it more bearable, all while empowering myself with faith and patience.
Today, I feel a deep sense of harmony with my faith and beliefs. I pray that this harmony continues to guide not only my journey but the journeys of all those who are facing their own challenges and choices. I hope that by sharing my experiences, I have been able to provide some insight and support. Please feel free to reach out with any questions, recommendations, or thoughts you may have about feelings, tips, or style.
Stay blessed and modest!
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La Petite
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